Goal setting often feels like an expectation or even a chore around the final months of the year as well as the month of January. However, as they say, it is the little things. Setting goals for the upcoming year does not have to be an elaborate process in which we feel like we are being tested or being quizzed on our weaknesses and uncovering our personal flaws. Rather, setting goals can be as simple as wanting to and becoming a better listener, embracing new perspectives, or maybe even finishing everything that you start.
Re-defining success and accomplishment is an important aspect of goal setting as well, rather than striving for someone else’s definition of success or perception of success led by your judgment. A neighbor’s definition of success is unlikely to apply to your circumstances and path. It is not a one size fits all and that is okay! You are in a race/league of your own and that is how it should be.
Your goals that apply to you and your definition of success are unique. Regarding re-defining accomplishment, it may be helpful to remember that goals can be accomplished but it is imperative to remind yourself that the growth doesn’t have to end. A personal goal being accomplished doesn’t have to end in 3 or even 6 months; the growth and improvement doesn’t have to stop. Realizing that the task or improvement is habitual is a sign of gain and proof of your progress.
My approach to creating 2025 goals began with me analyzing what it is I am good at. For example, I know that I am organized, I am punctual, and I’m responsible. As for my 2025 goals, a few involve listening more, planning better for events (that I know are in the coming months), spending less money on lunch in a week, etc. The list of goals that I compiled are not necessarily weaknesses because I already know how to do all of these things. I can and have before. The goal is to make these goals, habits! The beauty in setting goals is that the common and recurring theme throughout them is consistency and taking accountability. I will appreciate and recognize that I stayed consistent once these goals have become a part of my daily routine and this is motivation to continue them throughout the future, thereafter. As the year continues I encourage you to continue setting goals and re-inventing your life.
Remember, making mistakes along the way is key as long as you’re learning, applying, and working towards improvement you are on the right path. Sometimes you don’t have to be determined, you just have to remain consistent. Prioritizing areas for personal or professional improvement is a significant sign of awareness and self-love.
